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Would you rather questions for couples

In short

Would you rather is a game where you each pick one of two choices, then explain why.

For couples, the fun part is the reveal: did you pick the same thing?

Start with the cute questions, keep the hard ones for later, and give each answer ten seconds of why.

Play together

One question at a time. Pass the phone or read it out loud.

All questions

Cute

For a first round or a quiet night in.

  1. Would you rather get a good morning text every day or get a good night call every night?
  2. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or sing badly in the car together?
  3. Would you rather get a handwritten letter or get a playlist made just for you?
  4. Would you rather have breakfast in bed or have a picnic in the park?
  5. Would you rather know every one of your partner’s thoughts for a day or have them know all of yours?
  6. Would you rather relive your first date or skip ahead and see a date ten years from now?
  7. Would you rather get a surprise visit or plan a trip together for months?
  8. Would you rather have a song that is just yours or have a place that is just yours?
  9. Would you rather fall asleep on a video call or wake up to a voice note?
  10. Would you rather share every dessert or always get your own?
  11. Would you rather have matching pajamas or have matching mugs?
  12. Would you rather get one long hug or get ten small kisses?
  13. Would you rather cook a meal together or be cooked for?
  14. Would you rather have a pet together or have a plant you keep alive together?
  15. Would you rather hear “I’m proud of you” or hear “I missed you”?
  16. Would you rather watch the sunrise together or watch the sunset together?
  17. Would you rather have an inside joke nobody else gets or have a nickname nobody else uses?
  18. Would you rather get flowers for no reason or get your favorite snack for no reason?

Funny

When you need to laugh, or on a long drive.

  1. Would you rather only talk in song lyrics for a day or only talk in movie quotes for a day?
  2. Would you rather have your partner pick your outfits for a month or pick theirs?
  3. Would you rather swap phones for a day or swap closets for a day?
  4. Would you rather have a cat that judges you or have a dog that is scared of everything?
  5. Would you rather read every text out loud before you send it or have every text you get read out loud?
  6. Would you rather lose the TV remote forever or lose the phone charger forever?
  7. Would you rather laugh at the worst moment or cry at every commercial?
  8. Would you rather have your partner narrate your life or have a laugh track follow you?
  9. Would you rather always be ten minutes late or always be thirty minutes early?
  10. Would you rather eat the same meal every day for a year or never eat the same meal twice?
  11. Would you rather only use emojis to text for a week or only send voice notes for a week?
  12. Would you rather have your partner’s mom read your chats or have your mom read them?
  13. Would you rather say “I love you” every time you sneeze or sneeze every time you say it?
  14. Would you rather fight a goose together or babysit three toddlers together?
  15. Would you rather get a matching tattoo you pick or get one your partner picks?
  16. Would you rather always hear what your partner is singing in their head or always know what they want to eat?
  17. Would you rather be famous for a bad dance or be famous for a bad haircut?
  18. Would you rather have every argument end in a dance off or have every argument end in a staring contest?

Dates and travel

When you are planning the next date or trip.

  1. Would you rather take a road trip with no plan or take a trip planned to the minute?
  2. Would you rather go on a beach vacation or go on a mountain vacation?
  3. Would you rather travel to one place for a month or travel to ten places in a month?
  4. Would you rather go to a concert together or go to a comedy show together?
  5. Would you rather have a fancy dinner or have street food at midnight?
  6. Would you rather go camping for a weekend or stay in a tiny hotel for a weekend?
  7. Would you rather take a cooking class together or take a dance class together?
  8. Would you rather go to a theme park or go to a museum?
  9. Would you rather redo your first date exactly or do the opposite of your first date?
  10. Would you rather spend a rainy day in bed with a series or spend a sunny day outside with no phones?
  11. Would you rather live abroad together for a year or travel somewhere new every summer?
  12. Would you rather plan every date or be surprised every date?
  13. Would you rather go stargazing or go to a drive in movie?
  14. Would you rather have a cheap date every week or have a big date once a month?
  15. Would you rather visit where your partner grew up or show them where you grew up?
  16. Would you rather have a staycation at home or take a weekend trip somewhere close?

Long distance

For a video call when you are far apart.

  1. Would you rather call every night for one hour or text all day and never call?
  2. Would you rather see each other for one long week twice a year or for one weekend every month?
  3. Would you rather get a care package or get a surprise food delivery?
  4. Would you rather watch the same movie at the same time or play an online game together?
  5. Would you rather have a countdown on your lock screen or have your partner’s photo on it?
  6. Would you rather send a voice note every morning or send a photo every night?
  7. Would you rather live in the same time zone but far away or live close but on opposite schedules?
  8. Would you rather write each other letters by mail or keep a shared diary online?
  9. Would you rather fall asleep on a call or wake up to a long text?
  10. Would you rather have a fixed call time every day or call whenever you miss each other?
  11. Would you rather visit your partner’s city or meet halfway somewhere new?
  12. Would you rather know the exact date you will close the distance or be surprised when it happens?
  13. Would you rather cook the same recipe on a call or order the same takeout on a call?
  14. Would you rather have a shared playlist you both add to or have a shared photo album?
  15. Would you rather get one long call on the weekend or get short calls every day?

A little spicy

Flirty, not explicit. Safe to play anywhere.

  1. Would you rather get a flirty text in the middle of a meeting or get one in the middle of dinner with family?
  2. Would you rather have your partner whisper something sweet or have them leave a note in your pocket?
  3. Would you rather kiss in the rain or kiss at midnight on New Year’s?
  4. Would you rather be told you look good or be shown you look good?
  5. Would you rather have your partner wear your hoodie or wear theirs?
  6. Would you rather get a long kiss goodbye or get a long kiss hello?
  7. Would you rather have a dress up date at home or have a pajama date out?
  8. Would you rather flirt like strangers at a bar or relive the night you first kissed?
  9. Would you rather get a compliment in public or get one only you can hear?
  10. Would you rather have your partner sing to you or have them dance for you?
  11. Would you rather send the first flirty text of the day or get it?
  12. Would you rather hold hands all day or steal kisses all day?
  13. Would you rather have a secret signal for “let’s go home” or have a secret word only you two know?

Hard choices

For a slow night. Take your time and explain your pick.

  1. Would you rather always know what your partner is feeling or always know what they are thinking?
  2. Would you rather have a big fight that clears the air or have small silent moods that pass?
  3. Would you rather live near your family or live near your partner’s family?
  4. Would you rather have more time together or have more money together?
  5. Would you rather say what you feel right away or wait a day before you talk about it?
  6. Would you rather be the one who says sorry first or be the one who forgives first?
  7. Would you rather remember every moment together or remember only the best ones?
  8. Would you rather know how you will grow old together or be surprised?
  9. Would you rather change one thing about your past or know one thing about your future?
  10. Would you rather have your partner be your best friend or keep your best friend separate?
  11. Would you rather move for your partner’s dream job or have them move for yours?
  12. Would you rather read your whole chat history from the start or never read it again?
  13. Would you rather have one perfect day together or have a hundred ordinary good ones?
  14. Would you rather hear the whole truth always or be spared the small hard truths?
  15. Would you rather start over and meet again or keep everything exactly as it is?

How to play

  1. 1Take turns reading a question out loud.
  2. 2Both pick in secret: hold up one finger for the first choice, two for the second.
  3. 3Reveal together. If you picked differently, each of you explains in one sentence.
  4. 4Count your matches. Ten questions is a good round.
  5. 5Anyone can skip a question. No reason needed.

Questions

How do you play would you rather as a couple?

One of you reads a question, you both pick in secret, then you reveal at the same time. If you picked differently, each of you says why in one sentence.

How many questions should we play?

Ten is a good round. Stop while it is still fun and keep the rest for another night.

What if a question starts a fight?

Skip it. Anyone can skip any question. The game is for getting to know each other, not for winning.

Can we play over text or a video call?

Yes. Send the question, both answer, then reveal your picks at the same time.

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